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48 Relationship Patterns
for those born during
The Week of Intensity
October 26-November 2
1

October 26-November 2
Intensity
with
Mar. 19-24
Renewal
PAYING DUES
Paying Dues
relationship traits
AFFECTIONATE
ETHICAL
SERIOUS
MISTRUSTING
REBELLIOUS
DECEPTIVE
ideal for
FRIENDSHIP
problematic for
FAMILY
2

October 26-November 2
Intensity
with
Mar. 25-Apr. 2
Child
A REWARDING RIVALRY
A Rewarding Rivalry
relationship traits
CHALLENGING
ACHIEVING
DEPENDABLE
UNSETTLING
DEMANDING
ESTRANGED
ideal for
COMPETITION
problematic for
LOVE
3

October 26-November 2
Intensity
with
Apr. 3-10
Star
A MISSION IMPROBABLE
A Mission Improbable
relationship traits
INTENSE
PLEASURABLE
FUN
DEMANDING
POSSESSIVE
UNSTABLE
ideal for
FRIENDSHIP, SIBLING
problematic for
WORK
4

October 26-November 2
Intensity
with
Apr. 11-18
Pioneer
NEW LEVELS OF EXCITEMENT
New Levels of Excitement
relationship traits
SCINTILLATING
IMAGINATIVE
VIBRANT
ANGRY
BLAMING
VIOLENT
ideal for
LOVE
problematic for
FAMILY
5

October 26-November 2
Intensity
with
Apr. 19-24
Power
TESTING THE METTLE
Testing the Mettle
relationship traits
PASSIONATE
EQUAL
UPWARDLY‑MOBILE
JUDGMENTAL
EXACTING
PAINFUL
ideal for
FRIENDSHIP
problematic for
MARRIAGE
6

October 26-November 2
Intensity
with
Apr. 25-May 2
Manifestation
RUNNING THE GAMUT
Running the Gamut
relationship traits
EXPRESSIVE
TRUSTING
ECSTATIC
CONTROLLING
DESTRUCTIVE
REBELLIOUS
ideal for
LOVE
problematic for
PARENT-CHILD
7

October 26-November 2
Intensity
with
May 3-10
Teacher
CRUSADING SPIRIT
Crusading Spirit
relationship traits
FAIR
INTELLIGENT
STIMULATING
OVERZEALOUS
UNEMOTIVE
RESISTANT
ideal for
FAMILY
problematic for
LOVE
8

October 26-November 2
Intensity
with
May 11-18
Natural
STRENGTH IN DIFFERENCE
Strength in Difference
relationship traits
COMPLEMENTARY
VARIED
ECSTATIC
UNBALANCED
COMBATIVE
UNSETTLED
ideal for
MARRIAGE
problematic for
SIBLING
9

October 26-November 2
Intensity
with
May 19-24
Energy
UNPREDICTABLE PETULANCE
Unpredictable Petulance
relationship traits
CAPABLE
CLOSE
PRODUCTIVE
UNFORGIVING
UNACCEPTING
CONDEMNING
ideal for
WORK
problematic for
LOVE
10

October 26-November 2
Intensity
with
May 24-Jun. 2
Freedom
ALTERNATING CURRENTS
Alternating Currents
relationship traits
LOYAL
RESPONSIBLE
DETERMINED
AGGRESSIVE
CONFLICTING
UNSTABLE
ideal for
SIBLING
problematic for
MARRIAGE
11

October 26-November 2
Intensity
with
Jun. 3-10
New Language
AN EMOTIONAL PIPELINE
An Emotional Pipeline
relationship traits
EMPATHIC
ENERGETIC
UNDERSTANDING
IRRITATED
CONTROLLING
DESTRUCTIVE
ideal for
PARENT-CHILD
problematic for
FRIENDSHIP
12

October 26-November 2
Intensity
with
Jun. 11-18
Seeker
A MATTER OF HONESTY
A Matter of Honesty
relationship traits
OPEN
SENSUAL
STRIVING
MISLEADING
CONFESSIONAL
GUILT‑RIDDEN
ideal for
WORK
problematic for
LOVE
13

October 26-November 2
Intensity
with
Jun. 19-24
Magic
A LOVE OF SILENCE
A Love of Silence
relationship traits
SPIRITUAL
SENSUOUS
SEXUAL
OVERSENSITIVE
GULLIBLE
IMPRACTICAL
ideal for
LOVE
problematic for
MARRIAGE
14

October 26-November 2
Intensity
with
Jun. 24-Jul. 2
Empath
SETTING PARAMETERS
Setting Parameters
relationship traits
STRIVING
FEELING
SENSUAL
COMPLEX
STRUGGLING
ILL‑DEFINED
ideal for
LOVE
problematic for
FRIENDSHIP
15

October 26-November 2
Intensity
with
Jul. 3-10
Unconventional
A SUBTERRANEAN PLAN
A Subterranean Plan
relationship traits
INTIMATE
EXCITING
POWERFUL
DESTRUCTIVE
FEARFUL
SUFFERING
ideal for
WORK
problematic for
LOVE
16

October 26-November 2
Intensity
with
Jul. 11-18
Persuader
A SMOKE SCREEN
A Smoke Screen
relationship traits
PRODUCTIVE
BENEFITING
MAGNETIC
DISHONEST
SECRETIVE
DESTRUCTIVE
ideal for
MARRIAGE
problematic for
WORK
17

October 26-November 2
Intensity
with
Jul. 19-25
Oscillation
AMBIVALENT FEELINGS
Ambivalent Feelings
relationship traits
EXCITING
VIVID
ADVENTURESOME
AMBIVALENT
INCOMPATIBLE
MISDIRECTED
ideal for
WORK
problematic for
FRIENDSHIP
18

October 26-November 2
Intensity
with
Jul. 26-Aug. 2
Authority
ALL OR NOT AT ALL
All or Not at All
relationship traits
TRUTHFUL
RESPECTFUL
SENSUAL
CONFLICTING
UNFORGIVING
DEMANDING
ideal for
FRIENDSHIP
problematic for
PARENT-CHILD
19

October 26-November 2
Intensity
with
Aug. 3-10
Balanced Strength
EXPERIENCING REBIRTH
Experiencing Rebirth
relationship traits
ASPIRING
NURTURING
INNOVATIVE
STUBBORN
OVERSERIOUS
COMBATIVE
ideal for
MARRIAGE
problematic for
SIBLING
20

October 26-November 2
Intensity
with
Aug. 11-18
Leadership
AN UNDERGROUND LABYRINTH
An Underground Labyrinth
relationship traits
TRUSTING
BEAUTY‑LOVING
CREATIVE
TROUBLED
COMPLEX
REPRESSIVE
ideal for
FRIENDSHIP
problematic for
MARRIAGE
21

October 26-November 2
Intensity
with
Aug. 19-25
Exposure
WELL CAMOUFLAGED
Well Camouflaged
relationship traits
YOUTHFUL
PLAYFUL
GOOD‑NATURED
MISLEADING
RUTHLESS
POWER‑HUNGRY
ideal for
WORK
problematic for
LOVE
22

October 26-November 2
Intensity
with
Aug. 26-Sep. 2
System Builders
ATTENTION TO DETAIL
Attention to Detail
relationship traits
ATTENTIVE
CONCENTRATED
TECHNICAL
CONTROLLING
OVERCAREFUL
UNFORGIVING
ideal for
MARRIAGE
problematic for
BOSS-EMPLOYEE
23

October 26-November 2
Intensity
with
Sep. 3-10
Enigma
MOCK AGGRESSION
Mock Aggression
relationship traits
COMICAL
COMPETENT
TOUGHENING
AVOIDING
DISRUPTIVE
DIFFICULT
ideal for
LOVE
problematic for
FAMILY
24

October 26-November 2
Intensity
with
Sep. 11-18
Literalist
A FORM-FITTING DYNAMIC
A Form-Fitting Dynamic
relationship traits
SOCIAL
ADAPTIVE
APPRECIATIVE
OBSESSIVE
DOMINATING
NEGLECTFUL
ideal for
MARRIAGE
problematic for
SIBLING
25

October 26-November 2
Intensity
with
Sep. 19-24
Beauty
A CONTENTIOUS DYNAMIC
A Contentious Dynamic
relationship traits
PERSISTENT
DYNAMIC
FORWARD‑LOOKING
SUSPICIOUS
OVERAMBITIOUS
DISLOYAL
ideal for
LOVE
problematic for
FRIENDSHIP
26

October 26-November 2
Intensity
with
Sep. 25-Oct. 2
Perfectionist
KICKING OFF FROM EXCITEMENT
Kicking Off from Excitement
relationship traits
DRAMATIC
FLAMBOYANT
EXCITING
FRENZIED
ADDICTIVE
UNSTABLE
ideal for
PARENT-CHILD
problematic for
WORK
27

October 26-November 2
Intensity
with
Oct. 3-10
Society
POWER’S FATAL ATTRACTION
Power’s Fatal Attraction
relationship traits
ENERGETIC
AMBITIOUS
IDEOLOGICAL
STRESSED
POWER‑OBSESSED
INHUMAN
ideal for
FAMILY
problematic for
LOVE
28

October 26-November 2
Intensity
with
Oct. 11-18
Theater
THE ELITIST POSITION
The Elitist Position
relationship traits
TASTEFUL
DISCRIMINATING
SPECIALIZED
SNOBBISH
CONTEMPTUOUS
SELFISH
ideal for
FRIENDSHIP
problematic for
LOVE
29

October 26-November 2
Intensity
with
Oct. 19-25
Drama & Criticism
HOT DEBATE
Hot Debate
relationship traits
PRODUCTIVE
ATTENTIVE
AFFECTIONATE
UNAWARE
MISUNDERSTANDING
STRESSED
ideal for
WORK
problematic for
MARRIAGE
30

October 26-November 2
Intensity
with
Oct. 26-Nov. 2
Intensity
COMPROMISES FOR SANITY
Compromises for Sanity
relationship traits
CHALLENGING
POWERFUL
UNUSUAL
DESTRUCTIVE
NEGATIVE
UNFULFILLING
ideal for
MARRIAGE
problematic for
WORK
31

October 26-November 2
Intensity
with
Nov. 3-11
Depth
WARY CIRCLING
Wary Circling
relationship traits
MOMENTOUS
SOLID
MATERIALLY ADEPT
SUSPICIOUS
POWER‑OBSESSED
DISSATISFIED
ideal for
BUSINESS PARTNERS
problematic for
FAMILY
32

October 26-November 2
Intensity
with
Nov. 12-18
Charm
ANCIENT ROOTS
Ancient Roots
relationship traits
FATED
DEEP
COMMITTED
REPRESSIVE
AGONIZING
MISTRUSTFUL
ideal for
FAMILY
problematic for
LOVE
33

October 26-November 2
Intensity
with
Nov. 19-24
Revolution
THROWING A SWITCH
Throwing a Switch
relationship traits
NATURAL
SENSUAL
NO‑NONSENSE
DANGEROUS
SECRETIVE
OBLITERATING
ideal for
MARRIAGE
problematic for
ADVERSARIAL
34

October 26-November 2
Intensity
with
Nov. 25-Dec. 2
Independence
WHEELING AND PARRYING
Wheeling and Parrying
relationship traits
PROTECTIVE
CHARMING
TOUGHENING
DISRUPTIVE
DESTRUCTIVE
OVERCONFIDENT
ideal for
SIBLING
problematic for
WORK
35

October 26-November 2
Intensity
with
Dec. 3-10
Originator
PLUGGED IN
Plugged In
relationship traits
VISIONARY
ENERGETIC
DIVERSE
PROBLEMATIC
TENSE
INCOMPATIBLE
ideal for
WORK
problematic for
LOVE
36

October 26-November 2
Intensity
with
Dec. 11-18
Titan
LIVELY DEBUNKING
Lively Debunking
relationship traits
AFFECTIONATE
EMPATHIC
FUNNY
OBNOXIOUS
REBELLIOUS
HAYWIRE
ideal for
FAMILY
problematic for
WORK
37

October 26-November 2
Intensity
with
Dec. 19-25
Prophecy
ROOM TO BREATHE
Room to Breathe
relationship traits
THOUGHTFUL
SERIOUS
FREEDOM‑SEEKING
EMOTIONALLY BLOCKED
UNCOMMUNICATIVE
ideal for
FRIENDSHIP
problematic for
LOVE
38

October 26-November 2
Intensity
with
Dec. 26-Jan. 2
Ruler
CULTIVATING OPENNESS
Cultivating Openness
relationship traits
INDEPENDENT
ASPIRING
RESPONSIBLE
INTOLERANT
HURTFUL
INFLEXIBLE
ideal for
WORK
problematic for
FAMILY
39

October 26-November 2
Intensity
with
Jan. 3-9
Determination
SEEING EYE TO EYE
Seeing Eye to Eye
relationship traits
SUPPORTIVE
COMMUNICATIVE
PROFESSIONAL
STRESSED
ARGUMENTATIVE
JEALOUS
ideal for
LOVE
problematic for
SIBLING
40

October 26-November 2
Intensity
with
Jan. 10-16
Dominance
CONTINUOUS VIGILANCE
Continuous Vigilance
relationship traits
CHALLENGING
POWERFUL
UNUSUAL
DESTRUCTIVE
NEGATIVE
UNFULFILLING
ideal for
WORK, RIVALRY
problematic for
MARRIAGE
41

October 26-November 2
Intensity
with
Jan. 17-22
Mystery & Imagination
RIOTOUS RIDICULE
Riotous Ridicule
relationship traits
ADVENTURESOME
FUNNY
ENGROSSING
UNSTABLE
INCONSISTENT
VIOLENT
ideal for
FRIENDSHIP
problematic for
SIBLING
42

October 26-November 2
Intensity
with
Jan. 23-30
Genius
WIDER HORIZONS
Wider Horizons
relationship traits
LARGE‑SCALE
DYNAMIC
REALISTIC
GUARDED
SELFISH
UNFULFILLED
ideal for
SIBLING
problematic for
LOVE
43

October 26-November 2
Intensity
with
Jan. 31-Feb. 7
Youth & Ease
A BROAD SPECTRUM OF ADMIRERS
A Broad Spectrum of Admirers
relationship traits
ATTRACTIVE
SENSUOUS
ENCOURAGING
POLARIZED
EXCESSIVE
CLOYING
ideal for
LOVE
problematic for
WORK
44

October 26-November 2
Intensity
with
Feb. 8-15
Acceptance
EXPLORING THE SHADOW SIDE
Exploring the Shadow Side
relationship traits
CONFRONTING
SELF‑ACTUALIZING
PROFOUND
DISTURBING
DECEIVING
TURBULENT
ideal for
FRIENDSHIP
problematic for
LOVE
45

October 26-November 2
Intensity
with
Feb. 16-22
Sensitivity
THE TRUSTWORTHY MIRROR
The Trustworthy Mirror
relationship traits
COOPERATIVE
COMMUNICATIVE
EMPATHIC
CONTENT
BORING
STAGNATING
ideal for
WORK
problematic for
LOVE
46

October 26-November 2
Intensity
with
Feb. 23-Mar. 2
Spirit
THE RULES
The Rules
relationship traits
PHILOSOPHICAL
SENSUAL
DIVERSE
ANTAGONISTIC
JEALOUS
EMOTIONALLY UNAWARE
ideal for
FRIENDSHIP
problematic for
FAMILY
47

October 26-November 2
Intensity
with
Mar. 3-10
Loner
AMBIGUOUS FOG
Ambiguous Fog
relationship traits
EMOTIONAL
TRUSTING
CLOSE
OVERSENSITIVE
AMBIGUOUS
REJECTING
ideal for
LOVE
problematic for
MARRIAGE
48

October 26-November 2
Intensity
with
Mar. 11-18
Dancers & Dreamers
SEVERAL METAMORPHOSES
Several Metamorphoses
relationship traits
PURPOSEFUL
SENSUAL
COMMITTED
ISOLATED
SNOBBISH
FRUSTRATING
ideal for
MARRIAGE
problematic for
LOVE